No one can know anything. we can tell completely fake information about ourselves and no one will ever know.)) So this question is not appropriate:)

I think that the name has nothing to do with anything... how can someone know if anyone's name is real?

Well, I didn't put my real surname here anyway. But does it really matter then, if I wrote a fake name why should I tell someone it's not fake if we're talking about safety:)

lina, mostly i also ask to the person if he/she is using the real name or not, and it is very possible to use different names instead of real ones in terms of safety issues, that s also my reason not to include my surname here.. Otherwise, we should have thought that winston churchill is really chatting with us in amigos..

i'm still friends with 2 of my ex's if that says anything

Well, at least Danny and Sandra still heard from each other (being from the same school) but in this case the guy hadn't even written an email, but the girl still was hoping that he would come and take her away from Latvia.

like Danny and Sandra in Grease

I think it's more reading fairytales about Cinderella :D The Prince Charming on the white horse who will come and rescue them from the misery of their life and bring them to the better life. Yeah, right... maybe indeed if there were less fairytale believers among girls there also might be less guys who think they can pose as those Prince Charmings.
Seriously, they still exist. There was a serious question in one forum along the lines "Oh, I met this guy in summer, we spent a nice evening together and he said he would come to pick me up later. Now it's winter and I still haven't heard from him. Does he still love me?"  

You certainly met the wrong girls, from the ones that answered you, you can find out that you can't buy all of us. It is humiliating to live with a man for money, as for me.. But it is a problem of most good looking girls, they think that they're so perfect that they should be paid for that from all men that surround them. But it's sure not love, they just want a good life. There is a problem from the other side too, many men want to buy girls, I've met such situations in life. And they call me stupid if I say I'm not interested in their money. Maybe girls get offended of that and start being a product you can buy:)

Eric, real also me very carefully. I never said you were from UK. And I just mentioned that sex industry is a fact in every country, even in yours (wherever it is). And that it doesn't mean that all young adult females of that country (e.g., from Baltic states or any other country) will be taking part of that sex industry. So all I am saying is to not connect sex industry with particular people, OK?

too much watching Aladin I guess and thinking the middle east is so lovely and not the warzone it really is.

Well, it's also a girls' fault too. There are no fairy tales in life. It's their fault they've believed in that. Of course it's not very right for a man who respects himself to promise golden mountains to naive girls, but as long as there are grils who will agree to go and live with them, those men will keep terorising all girls around:)))

certainly not real men  

My boss and 95% of my colleagues are women  

Some of my best employers have been women

Parasites, we call them  

what sort of guys are these people?

You can find out so many things about yourself when you say no:))

And the sad thing is that... after a while those girls kind of get a bad relationship with their family too because of those guys that are living out of them

Do you think so? Of course not, they just realize the huge mistake after the damage is done!